What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 14:17
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
Why is Reddit blocked by the Indonesian government?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
Teens like me, what are your expectations when entering adulthood?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
What were some things that the ancient Greeks excelled at compared to the Romans?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Are fanservice-y characters (i.e. Lara Croft, Tifa Lockhart) immediately bad?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Overthinking is killing me day-by-day. What should I do?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
29- How superstitious are you?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
What is the most memorable thing that happened in your college days?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
What are some common historical misconceptions?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Has anyone ever had sex with their cousin? How did it start, and would you do it again?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
*** Random Questions ***
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
The Ice Breaker Questions
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Any that are a turn off?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
If yes, what?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
62~ Have you used adult toys?
*** Questions About Me ***
What is your favorite position? Why?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
Nothing too Serious
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
52~ What are your hobbies?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
39~ What are your love languages?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Please share Did you stop?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Would you read them together?
How old are you? Male or Female?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
Have you ever? Care to Share?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
If you win, what will you make them do?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
Family Relation Age Play
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Any that are a turn off?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?